AGING WITH GRACE - Ch 3 Destiny to Destination

Aging with Grace is a book written by Sharon W. Betters and Susan Hunt.  We are using this book along with our Bibles in our in-person Womens Fellowship/Study group.  We are glad you are joining us online, either by reading the book, reading these summaries, or by visiting the online resources that coordinate with the book.  You may also decide to purchase the book online - you won't be disappointed.  There are many scripture references for each chapter discussion, plus discussion questions at the end of each chapter.   

I'd love to know your comments, and questions which you can leave at the bottom of this blog post or you can email me at sboback54@gmail.com. 

Make sure to read each of the blog posts starting with an announcement about the goals of the Womens Fellowship/Study and the Introduction of this book.  

We are women, in our late 60's and older, who have felt the changes in our bodies and lifestyles during these years of aging. While each of us comes from different circumstances, when we gather together in person or with you across the internet, we gather as a community of faithful women who are seeking to Know the LORD on a deeper level and especially as we travel through these years. 

CHAPTER 3 DESTINY AND DESTINATION

Heavenly Father: Your word IS a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.  Make me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me Your paths.  Lead me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; for You, I will wait all the day long. You have made known to me the paths of life; You will make me full of gladness with Your presence.  (Psalms 119: 105; 25:4-5; Acts 2:28) AWG

This week's chapter is focused on Psalm 92:5-11

What comes to mind when you think of the word, "DESTINY"?

"Manifest Destiny" is the first thing I thought of.  It means "the 19th-century doctrine or belief that the expansion of the United States throughout the American continents was both justified and inevitable."

Or how about "Destiny" a Swedish heavy metal band that was formed in 1980.  

I haven't heard this for a while, but you'd often hear that when you found your ideal job or one to love, "it must be my destiny."

From our author, Susan Hunt, her dictionary definition is "a predetermined, usually inevitable or irresistible course of events. Synonyms (words that are similar) "fate, fortune, luck, karma, chance, providence, predestination, divine decree, God's will, reflecting two contrasting views."

Scripture tells us God "foreknew" each of us before we were born, and that He has a plan for our lives. (Ephesians 1:4-6)

In Chapter 1 we read this statement:

WHAT IF:  we are supposed to discover who we really are or have been since the 1st half of our life?

This statement seems to make more and more sense as we read and discover that God has planned this stage of our life more than we ever thought.

What comes to mind when you think of the word, "DESTINATION"?

The first definition that popped into my mind was a “Destination Wedding”.  A wedding that is planned all around a special place, a special vacation for a few special people.

The definitions I found are "Place" or "a specific place to arrive at".  The Dictionary definition is finish line; goal to keep in mind; where you intend to end up.

PSALM 92: 5-11

How great are your works, Lord,

how profound your thoughts! Senseless people do not know,

fools do not understand, that though the wicked spring up like grass

and all evildoers flourish,

they will be destroyed forever. But you, Lord, are forever exalted. For surely your enemies, Lord,

surely your enemies will perish;

all evildoers will be scattered.  You have exalted my horn[a] like that of a wild ox;

fine oils have been poured on me. My eyes have seen the defeat of my adversaries;

my ears have heard the rout of my wicked foes.

Our author points us that to the question, 'how are you doing?. We often hear (or we say it ourselves) these responses "Oh, I'm okay under the circumstances," or "I'm hanging in there".  She continues to tell us that if we are in Christ, if we are confident in who we are - an active follower of Christ – we would not be using these phrases.  

The question then is "are you in the world" or "are you in Christ"?

I really have to stop and think about that. An immediate, no doubt response would be "I'm in Christ!" but when I think about saying “I'm okay under the circumstances” or "hanging in", I don't really think of it, until now, as admitting that I don't trust the LORD or believe in His plan for me.

How about you?  There's probably times when we have all felt down or been sick for a long time, and really want things to be better than they have been for some time.

We are created to know God, not by our mental capacity but to personally love the Lord our God.

How about that?   I can KNOW God!  You can KNOW God! and He has a plan for me! He has a plan for you! (Page 65 AWG)

At our age, in the Afternoon of Life, it may be hard for us to think about getting to Know God on a deeper level.

The one word that centers my faith is KNOW.   I realized that I knew who God was; I had learned that; I shared the Word of God with people in worship; I knew about the Old Testament history, and I knew about Jesus in New Testament, days of Jesus walking among the people.   But it wasn't until I felt empty and started to SEEK the LORD of the Bible that I discovered who Jesus really is.

Another phrase we often hear or say ourselves, "I'm too old to change," which is also not Biblical thinking.  Our bodies change, so do our hearts. But “When our hope is in Christ, our circumstances don’t always change, but there is radical change in our character, attitudes and actions.” (Page 66) We have found our DESTINY

PRAISE: Praising God opens the door to who you become NOW.  Its discovering your destiny - your destination from NOW to Eternity.  It doesn't start at eternity. 

Let’s not forget that we proclaimed in the beginning of this study that we want to FLOURISH. Flourishing happens in community.  Old age is a time to press close to community life. (page 72) Even if we cannot always attend worship in person, we can pray for and encourage others.

I had missed two weeks in a row, then went back, then got sick and missed another.   I am grateful for the opportunity to join in worship online with my church family.  But I know of others who cannot attend in person due to their personal or family circumstances. We are still in community with others, joining online and praying for one another. 

“We need the “means of Grace” – scripture, prayer, worship, sacrament – to remind us.  We need fellowship with God’s people to inspire us.  When we gather with others, we look around and see others who are waiting for the Savior.   We see widows, we see women whose lives were taken up with caregiving, we see others who live in chronic pain, and those that are starting after divorce.  The pain and sorrow of this world spills into our lives but we do not live without hope (1 Thess 4:13)”

Matt 18:20 is a reminder to us “where two or more are gathering in my name, there I am among them.” A temptation of those in the Afternoon of Life is to withdraw.  But we FLOURISH when we gather together with God’s people because He is there with us.  

SUMMARY:  Remember that

+          God has a role for us NOW – that our DESTINATION is to be seeking Him, to thrive in Him

+          we are to PRAISE Him NOW through eternity. 

+          we FLOURISH when we can gather together in His name

Thanks for stopping by.   Make sure to click on the links above for information about the book or the Revive Our Hearts Womens Ministry.   Be Blessed! sb

 

AGING WITH GRACE - Chapter 2 ANNA

 

This book AGING WITH GRACE has opened our minds to the realization that just because we don’t have as much of a focus now that our families are grown or our daily work has ended, that there is more to this stage of life than we might have realized. 

Many of us are experiencing a definite change in our bodies: we don’t move as fast as we once did, or we tire easily, or we’re needing a joint replaced.   We also realize that not everyone has the same concerns whether they be physical or social, but the one commonality we have is that we want to FLOURISH, but need some direction. 

PSALM 92 is our focus for this study, verses 12 – 14.

The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon;

planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God.

They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green,

proclaiming, “The Lord is upright; he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him.

We, Women of Fellowship & Study, have declared that we want to Flourish and Thrive, in this older stage of life. We want to celebrate who we are now.  Its OK to look back at our earlier life, decisions we made, difficult times we went through, but now we are going to thank the LORD for all He has blessed us with to get us to this point.

REVIEW:

CHAPTER 1 “Wonder and Worship” write your own statement of Grace.  Remember that an acronym for GRACE is: God’s Redemption At Christ’s Expense.

A Statement of GRACE is unique to each person.  Here’s mine: I have been married for nearly 38 years.  We are blessed with 5 children between us, 14 grands, 6 great-grands!

Here's my Crown of Glory (Prov 16:33) piece from my art journal.  Do you journal?   This book has given me the beginnings of using my coloring to share the scriptures that are making a difference for me on any given day.    Get a blank journal at the thrift store or use a new notebook.  Put pen or pencil to paper and start.  

What is your Statement of GRACE?

There’s so much truth, hope and scripture in each chapter, so I hope you are able to read your own copy of AGING WITH GRACE by Sharon W. Betters and Susan Hunt.   You can listen to programming by these women at the Revive Our Hearts women's ministry website, or on YouTube.   You can find the book on Amazon.   You won’t be disappointed if you are in the “Afternoon of Life” and yearning to find more in this stage of life.

Psalm 92:2 tells us that it is good to start each day declaring God’s steadfast love and Faithfulness to us.   This word translated from Hebrew is HESED (page 34-35).  It is a “big” word in the Old Testament, and found 250 times.

To summarize what I believe HESED – God’s steadfast love or lovingkindness means: God's deep goodness expressed in his covenant (promise) commitment, his absolute loyalty, his obligating of himself to bring to fruition the blessings that He has promised, whatever it may cost Him personally to do that. (Sinclair Ferguson)

Our sin can never out-distance God's Steadfast love and faithfulness.

The explanation is of God's deep and lasting love for each of us sinners, but how do we continue to be faithful to Him when we are encountering changes in our lifestyles or daily activities?

The answer is this: to be faithful to seek the Lord, to read His Word, to join in fellowship with other believers, to proclaim His love together - worship.

Did you know that WORSHIP is more than gathering as a community of believers, singing praises, reading scripture, and learning from His Word.   WORSHIP is time spent with the Lord, honoring Him by doing activities that glorify Him, that follow His plan for your life. 

From Bible Hub: Worship is not confined to a location or ritual. Romans 12:1 describes presenting one’s body as a “living sacrifice” as a form of spiritual worship, emphasizing that everyday life can be an act of worship.

We often hear hunters say that being outdoors is worshiping the LORD in His creation.  I have experienced that one time in my life.  

If you are cleaning your home, doing laundry, cooking a meal – that is honoring Him.   If you are taking care of a child or caring for a parent, or helping with a sick friend, that is worshiping the Lord. 

Think of other ways that you can worship the Lord in your daily life.

CHAPTER 2 ANNA – Living Intentionally

The story of ANNA is found in LUKE 2:25-38. This chapter begins with the concept that we are all afraid that we will be cast aside or left alone in our aging years. God meets this deep need that we have by this promise:

“I will be your God, You will be my people, and I will dwell among you”

(Jer 7:23, 31:33, 32:38; Ezek 37:23)

Anna plays a small part in the narrative of the birth of our Savior.   She was a young widow after only 7 years of marriage and until she was 84.  

Think about your life, and a time when you have experienced loss.  Was it the loss of a child? Was your loss part of a career change that affected your income level? Did you experience a change in lifestyle because of a health issue?   Did you lose a chunk of your life because you cared for a parent or a child with disabilities, or a difficult marriage or divorce?

When we have lived through such difficult times, we may have felt the same emotion that Anna felt to be a widow at such a young age. I know how I felt.  The times never seemed to get better.  I remember a time when my garage door broke on top of my car, and on the same day that my pipes froze in my house.  There were no words to say, I was past the point of being upset.  I had to call in to work.   A friend, who seemed to have more faith than ever, suggested to tell God everything I was feeling – to cry out to Him!  But I thought that was so disrespectful!  Yet, what did I have to lose.   These incidents were the beginning of my crying out to the Lord, crying, and having some very heartfelt conversations with Him.   Now my life didn’t suddenly change, and there was an end to difficulties.   But now I began to talk to the Lord, to seek Him to find help.

After the birth of Jesus, Mary and Joseph take Him to the temple at the time of purification.  There, two people have a role in Jesus life.  These two people Simeon and Anna. Make sure to read about Simeon's faith, and Anna.  They were both advanced in age, yet their age did not stop them from waiting for the Messiah. These two older people’s lives intersected with Mary and Joseph and Jesus just at the right moment. (page 48)

In our in-person Women's Fellowship/Study discussions last week, two women were sharing details of their lives growing up.  They had never met, but through conversation, they discovered they were 2nd cousins!

                                            

This is a photo of my new transplant poppy.   I planted it about 3 years ago, but it didn't bloom till October that year.   I cut the stem, brought it in so it wouldn't freeze, set it in the west window, like you see here, and it bloomed.  This poppy was planted by the wind as it is the color of my poppies from the front yard.  It also didn't bloom till later in the summer, almost fall, this year.  I brought this poppy inside too. Although this is a very simple comparison, I'm blessed by this transplant, blooming late in the season. 

Do you ever stop to wonder about being in the right place at the right time?   Sometimes those moments help us to remember that it’s the little occurrences that are the big blessings.

Have you had an experience where you were convinced that the LORD our God has put you and someone else together for a unique specific purpose? 

Anna must have had hopes and dreams of her own, but now they were shattered by the untimely death of her husband. In that culture, her son would have taken care of her, but there is no mention of a son: he could have ignored her, he could have died, or she may not have had any children.  Anna was vulnerable and alone.  Since there’s not much information shared about her life, we don’t know if she turned to the LORD immediately or if she came to know the LORD sometime later. (AWG)

                                                                               This from Isaiah, and a visual, like this watercolor print I made, is often what I need to remember the LORD's promises. 

PAGE 50, 51– “Sometimes the journey through suffering is dark and long. Sometimes the distractions and despair are overwhelming. Anna had reason to despair, but she chose to learn what it meant to worship in this darkness, and find the hope that God would indeed keep His promises.”

Have you experienced this type of loss?

In Matthew, 14:6-12, Jesus learns of the death of John the Baptist; that he was beheaded.   Jesus plans to go away from the crowds to be alone, but the people follow Him and instead of turning them away, so that He could mourn, He ministers to the people instead.

Have you ever pushed through your sorrow or grief, to help someone else?  Doing so seems insurmountable, to reach out to someone when you are in such a sad frame of mind.   But somehow reaching out brings you a joy you didn’t expect or even realize you needed. 

So even though we know as we mature and age that we will experience grief and loss, the HOPE is that we will experience eternal JOY through our relationship with the LORD, which will sustain us through our suffering, though temporary.

ANNA chose widowhood as her platform to glorify God.  She saw her widowhood as a tool, as an opportunity to share her faith with others.

Ask yourself these questions:

Will Hopelessness or hopelessness take up residence in my heart? (Will I stay in my feelings of loss and ask God why He has forgotten me?)

Will I live with the expectation of seeing Jesus someday? (Will I experience joy now instead of thinking it will only come in the end?)

Will I wait with frustration? (What will my daily mood be like, and in relationship to others?)

Will I A.B.I.D.E. in Jesus? (John 15 is The Vine and the Branches:  ABIDE is: Accept Pruning   Believe in His Word  Identify False Vines   Delight in Jesus    Endure Joy)

Let's consider our view of aging and how that impacts our daily choices.

Retirement = best years, more income, bucket list check offs, and doing all the things we never had time for   OR

Retirement = survive the losses, the changes in income, the loneliness, the empty house, feeling useless

HOW do we Flourish with these feelings taking control?   How do we live a long life?

ANSWER: We live intentionally by following the map that God has put before us.  We FLOURISH in our advanced years, by making a point, living intentionally despite the challenges of old age that frighten us. 

                                                           

For some reason, I'm always drawn to flowers that look unique. See that petal that is sticking out?  Perhaps the petal is not as odd as you might think. Instead of referring to it as "the one that sticks out", that petal could get your attention to look a little closer to the whole flower, or even the whole flower bed. Maybe that's what we are hoping for when we get to the "Afternoon of Life," when we fear that we will be set aside or forgotten.    Nowhere does God diminish the value of the elderly (page 55).

To live intentionally we need to see the value in reading God’s word daily, to be in His presence, to KNOW Him and all the sweet promises He has for us.    

END OF CHAPTER QUESTIONS from Aging with Grace

1)       Why do you read the Bible?

2)        Give your idea of the Biblical view of aging and how does that compare to what you believe or believed before you read AGING WITH GRACE?

3)       What is one event in your life that you can see where God is working in you, and to encourage others?

4)        What difference might you make in your life to embrace your loss in your everyday life or in your interactions with others?

Thanks for joining us today in CHAPTER 2 ANNA, of AGING WITH GRACE.   Make time to listen to the discussions on Revive our Hearts by the authors and find their ministry videos on YouTube.

Be Blessed! sb

Aging with Grace - Chapter 1 Concluded

 

Welcome to Women's Fellowship/Study.   Pull up a chair, there's room at the Lord's table.  I'm highlighting scriptures, concepts and hopeful statements from this book AGING WITH GRACE.  There's a link to find resources online.  I invite you to stop by every week to get an overview, to join other women as we find encouragement in this stage of our lives.  

We'll begin with this prayer:

"Dear Sister in Christ - you have been born again, not of perishable seed but of imperishable, through the living and abiding Word of God which remains forever (1 Peter1:23-25). I encourage you to "set your heart on all the words....for it is not a futile thing for you, because it is your life" (Deut. 32:46-47), and to pray with the psalmist, "I am afflicted very much; revive me, O Lord, according to your word" (Psalm 119:107). I pray that in this difficult part of your journey, God's Word will be a lamp to your feet and a light to your path" (Psalm 119:105). Our "chief end" is to glorify God. I am praying that God's Word will empower you to glorify Him even in your suffering.  It is the Lord who goes before you.  He will be with you.  He will not leave you or forsake you.  Do not fear or be dismayed. (Deut 31:8) AMEN"

"Often when a woman retires or when her children leave home, she feels useless because her purpose was centered on what she was doing rather than what she was becoming. The Calling to glorify God transcends place, time, circumstance and age." page 39

Aging with Grace is written by Sharon W. Betters and Susan Hunt.  The focus is flourishing in an anti-aging culture, when you are in your "afternoon of life" or a Senior Citizen.  I encourage you to go to Revive our Hearts to listen to this program based on this book OR go to the website for Aging with Grace and watch videos and other materials. 

I started this Women's Fellowship/Study group because many of us are in this "aging" stage of life, with no guidelines or expectations beyond a few years of retirement.  "What's next?" we find ourselves wondering.  This book shares the experiences of Senior Women and gives hope through Psalm 92:12-14

The righteous will flourish like a palm tree,

    they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon;

13 

planted in the house of the Lord,

    they will flourish in the courts of our God.

14 

They will still bear fruit in old age,

    they will stay fresh and green,

15 

proclaiming, “The Lord is upright;

 he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him.

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Now here's a summary about what we've discussed so far, but I encourage you to read the book to get a deeper understanding of the life experience and relationships that brought Susan and Sharon to share their faith with us in this book.

QUESTION #1: Do you desire to Flourish? what does that mean?  Flourish is to thrive, in a healthy and vigorous way.  

TODAY IS THE DAY TO FLUORISH! Remember that we are not running this race alone, so let's gather together as women in fellowship and learn to Flourish even when we don't see how to do that!  Let's no longer depend on the world to prepare us for this "Afternoon of Life" because the world cannot give us hope! (Page 17)

WHAT IF:  we are supposed to discover who we really are or have been since the 1st half of our life?
It’s OK to look back at our lives. 

It's OK to look back at my life for the purpose of PRAISING the Lord for what He has done to bring me this far.
What am I going to do with the time I have left?  We will learn this from Women of the Bible and the scriptures.

Write your own Statement of Grace - this is a positive statement of blessings

Your statement of Grace will be different.  Examples are your age; schooling or occupation; where you've lived; if you've been a caregiver for a parent or family member; what your spiritual gift is; what your retirement is like. State whatever your blessings are and remember, that this is not a competition, nor should you feel "less than" if your Statement of Grace is not like anyone else's, OK?

There is always more grace to experience and more grace to know. 

We will Flourish and be Fruitful as long as we live in these earthly bodies!

I hope that you are able to read this book.  There is so much more to Aging With Grace, than I will get into in my weekly blog posts.  I hope you will return over and over again to the pages of this book for Hope and Encouragement, and a vast amount of scriptural resources, as you seek a deeper relationship with the Lord our God.   

CHAPTER 1 CONTINUED:

*What's the first thing that comes to mind when you think about God? Keep in mind that our answers will vary; and will show what our relationship is with Christ.

What we believe or don't believe about God is part of our daily life. As we face the sorrows of and physical sufferings of aging, Knowing "WHO" God is and "WHO" we are in Christ will comfort and carry us through these times. (pages 31-33)

Here's the point:  we must ask ourselves as we experience our aging troubles, physical and mentally, who is God to us? and who am I with Christ in me?   This is a search only you can reply to, ask and answer for yourself to move forward in Aging with Grace discussions.   

GROWING IN GRACE PRINCIPLE

"God reveals himself to us in His Word (the Bible). If we are to Flourish - it will be accomplished by how much time we spend in His Word, getting to know Him."  Did you know that the Word is God's love letter to you?  "An ever-growing knowledge of God produces a more mature God-centered perspective on our identity and purpose, which are the same in every season of life."

So you might recall that in an earlier post, we noted that this Aging with Grace: Fellowship/Study will not be a self help book with a list of ways to survive old age.   

The very first verse of Psalm 92:1 "It is good to give thanks to the Lord".  It is good to thanks to God, but not FOR everything, but IN everything.  That's thanking God IN every situation and relationship. 

And that's not always easy to do, is it?  

Why do we do that - give thanks to God in our hurting, in our sorrow, in our frustration, in our loneliness, in our uncertainty? 

Because God is good! and His steadfast Love endures forever!

GROWING IN GRACE PRINCIPLE

The authors write that one way to learn to give thanks and have an attitude of thankfulness is to worship weekly and unite with others to thank Him for His amazing grace. 

If you only remember ONE WORD from this book, (I hope there will be more than one) let it be this:

STEADFAST LOVE in Hebrew the word is "HESED" which sometimes translated is lovingkindness.

Psalm 92:2 "It is good to begin and end each day by declaring the Lord's steadfast love and faithfulness.

HESED appears 250 times in the Old Testament and dominantly with reference to God himself. 

HESED means: God's deep goodness expressed in his covenant (promise) commitment; his absolute loyalty; his obligating of himself to bring to fruition to the blessings that He has promised, whatever it may cost Him personally to do that. (Sinclair Ferguson)

What did it cost God? It cost his Son's life.  

Our sin can never out-distance God's Steadfast love (HESED) and faithfulness. 

Let's paraphrase that.  We can never do anything bad enough that will be worse than the covenant Jesus made with us; with His absolute loyalty to make sure that all the blessings He has promised to give us, regardless of the fact that He gave His only Son; just so He could personally show each of us His grace upon grace. 

To put GRACE in a simpler term, think of the extended coverage you get when you forget to pay your insurance premium on time. You have a GRACE Period, that allows you to have the same coverage as if you had paid the premium on time.  The GRACE period assures you that you are valued enough, and trusted enough, to pay as soon as possible, and that your coverage will not be cancelled because you made a mistake or didn't follow through on your portion of the insurance contract. But the GRACE of our Lord is so much more than that. 

GRACE is explained as God's Redemption At Christ's Expense.  

As a visual example, stand in the courtroom where you are on trial.  God is the Judge.  Christ is your Attorney - he is defending you. You have been found guilty, and at your sentencing, when you're standing before the Judge (God) Jesus steps forward and stands between you and the Judge (God) and takes your punishment for you so that you can go free to live your life.  That is one Amazing Grace!

That is God's steadfast love, God's HESED, faithfulness.   

But how do we continue to be faithful to Him?

The answer is this: to be faithful to seek the Lord, to stay in His word, to join in fellowship with other believers, to proclaim His love together - worship.

Just like the blade of grass, it needs everything the Lord provides to live, we must stay, remain, continue, submit and yes, endure with the Lord God.

GROWING IN GRACE PRINCIPLE

"Our bodies change as we age, so do our spirits. We MUST Guard against our hearts becoming brittle and bitter.  How?  by praying for Grace to Abide in Christ, and to bear fruit of HESED - Steadfast love and Faithfulness to others, even when it is costly to do so. 

So then we look for gladness in people, things, circumstances.  As we think of the Lord's goodness to us, we become good, and we become glad. 

Will we be stiff-necked or shining old ladies? 

Did you know that grey hair is considered a crown of glory? But don't be mistaken about the "color" of hair for it refers to the reflected glory of the one who lives face to face with Jesus, seeking to know Him better each day.

So the Crown of Glory, the Gospel Glow is our grey hair.  (Page 37, 38)

                                     (Art Journaling by Susan Boback)

"Often when a woman retires or when her children leave home, she feels useless because her purpose was centered on what she was doing rather than what she was becoming. The Calling to glorify God transcends place, time, circumstance and age."

GROWING IN GRACE PRINCIPLE
There are many things we can long do as we age, but age does not keep us from fulfilling our purpose to glorify and enjoy God.  An ever-growing knowledge of God's undeserved love - his Grace - changes our motivation.   

Its time to realize God's HESED for us and stop living for others, for an earlier life, and begin to live for His glory as we Age with Grace! (page 39)

NEXT WEEK:  read LUKE 2:25-38  The Story of Anna - Living Covenantly

(This week there has been a great deal of formatting issues, the post published early, editing and more. I apologize for the confusion of this post being published, dated 9/24, without edits.  I'm hoping these issues were a one-time thing!  Thanks in advance for your understanding with technology issues.)

Thanks for stopping by! Be Blessed! sb